Close to Home

[Worldwide] travel is not compulsory. Great minds have been fostered entirely by staying close to home.

James Morris, “It’s OK to Stay Home” NY Times 30 Aug 85Given the current economic climate, travel moves up the list of luxuries and gets excised from many budgets entirely. But for those lucky enough to live in a vacation destination, such circumstance offer an opportunity to experience your city in a new way. Continue reading

Where is New York?

New York is nothing like Paris; it is nothing like London; and it is not Spokane multiplied by sixty, or Detroit multiplied by four.
E.B. White,
Here is New York

About a decade ago, my partner and I began what has become a cherished tradition: spending Thanksgiving in New York with dear friends. Unlike what tends to happen as traditions over time become burdensome obligations, our annual trek to New York is one I look forward to all year. Continue reading

Hostile Territory

I have been reading a rather obscure travelogue from the 1930s entitled Ilf and Petrov’s American Road Trip, which documents the travels of two Soviet journalists across the Depression-era United States. The account is fairly objective and somewhat propaganda-free. As we have seen repeatedly since de Tocqueville, it seems we learn the most about our national character from outsiders. Continue reading

To Begin…

Two roads diverged in a wood, and I– 
I took the one less traveled by, 
And that has made all the difference.

Robert Frost, “The Road Not Taken”


What does the average person expect from travel? More specifically, what do gay men expect from travel and is it different than what everyone else expects? If gay men do expect something unique from travel, why do they and why should they? Continue reading